Trust & Reliability

used to advise against trusting or believing in someone or something without first verifying their reliability or effectiveness, as it may lead to regret or negative consequences in the future

The product had good reviews, but I wanted to test it out myself first - after all, if you trust before you try, you may repent before you die.

used to advise patience and careful consideration in forming close relationships, indicating that trust and loyalty are built over time and through experience

He was eager to invest in a business with someone he had just met, but I reminded him that you should know a man seven years before you stir his fire.

used to imply that a person who shares gossip with one cannot be trusted, as they are likely to spread gossip about one as well

She's always spreading rumors about others behind their backs, so I don't trust her at all - a dog that will bring a bone will carry a bone.

used to suggest that promises are often insincere or easily broken, and should not be relied upon too heavily

He promised to pay me back the money he borrowed, but I knew it was just an empty promise because promises are like piecrust made to be broken.

used to emphasize that one should not make promises lightly or without careful consideration, but once a promise is made, it should be fulfilled promptly and without delay

I'm always careful not to promise something I can't deliver, as I believe in being slow to promise but quick to perform.

used to caution people against being deceived or distracted by empty promises that offer future rewards or benefits that are not fulfilled in the present moment

He always makes big promises, but I've learned not to get my hopes up - after all, because as they say, jam tomorrow and jam yesterday, but never jam today.

used to suggest that people or things that seem harmless or kind may conceal hidden dangers or harmful intentions, advising one to be wary and cautious of potential risks or threats

Don't be fooled by his kind words, he's known to be manipulative - bees that have honey in their mouths have stings in their tails.

used to imply when people are honest and accurate in their accounting, they are less likely to have disagreements about money which can help to keep friendships peaceful and harmonious

I learned the hard way that good accounting makes good friends after a disagreement with my roommate over unpaid bills almost ruined our friendship, but we were able to resolve the issue by keeping better track of our expenses.